2011 comes knocking on my door.

Met up with S414A just now. Thank goodness for them to pull me through A levels.

I decided to write down my new year resolutions down this year because I think it’s time to really plan my life. It’s not because that I am 21 but I am graduating soon. There are many things for me to take. I do not really have the habit of setting resolutions. But I guess I could start this year.

Let’s make this simple. 3 for 2011.

1. Make those people who mattered feel like they mattered.

This year has been a short year because I was in Shanghai for nearly a quarter of 2010. These few months alone have let me really reflect a lot of my life and I am guilty of not treating my family, Loong and friends well. I take them for granted. However, this year’s sudden deaths made me realize that life is really frail. I need to start treasuring people so that if one day they leave this world, I know that I had the best with them.

2. Do not make the job-hunting process difficult for myself

I always have this tendency to make things difficult for myself. At this moment of time, I know that I won’t have a great start in my career as compared to my peers. But I need to believe that I can end it better than the rest of them. Like what I told Merlisa, it doesn’t matter how well we start, it’s how well we end it matters. I hope I drill this deeply in my mind. Thank goodness for my ever-supportive parents and Loong who are not having any expectations for me. Thank you for giving me the freedom and courage to do what I want.

3. Be happy

I should be happy because I am very lucky. I have a perfect family though sometimes some of us engage in arguments but which family doesn’t? 家家有本难念的经. I should be happy because I have a fantastic boyfriend who treats me so well. I should be happy because Singapore is so peaceful. I should be so happy because I am not starving.

I should be so happy because I am living.

Hope 2011 will be awesome for you and me.

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